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Baby Shower Gifts
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Baby Showers are
one of the most memorable times in the life of a
mother. They are somewhat of a rite of passage and especially for a
first-time mom. They help her to celebrate the life that is within her,
to welcome her loved ones into the life of her new baby and to prepare
for the needs of the baby before she or he is even born. |
My baby shower was quite memorable. My friend Thea invited me out to
dinner at the Olive Garden restaurant in the last few weeks of my
pregnancy with my son, Joel. I was certain that he was going to be a
little girl and had let all of my friends know that was my opinion.
Thea picked me up in her van and drove with me on a few errands before
we finally made our way to the city to dine.
We walked into the restaurant and we taken to our table immediately.
This should have tipped me off, but I was thoroughly surprised when we
were taken to the largest table in the restaurant (seemed odd at the
time, with it just being the two of us) and lo and behold!, we were led
to a table full of my friends! It took a moment to register because I
was completely taken off guard, even with the balloons and baby shower
gifts all around, the pink and blue color theme and all the familiar
faces. When my brain finally grasped what was going on, I was elated
and felt so honored that each woman would take the time to be there
that night, to surprise me and help welcome our new baby into the
world.
We enjoyed a lovely dinner and played several baby shower games. My
friend Chante' had been in charge of that part of the baby shower since
Thea has no such skills in that area. We played a game with money where
we went around the table and listed our "I nevers" and put money in the
piggy bank Chante' had brought and those proceeds went to start a fund
for our new baby. Little "rosebud" decorations of baby socks were
scattered all around the table and I was to collect them before time to
go home. Another gift given to me at the baby shower was a "Blessing
Book" of sorts that went around the table to each guest, and my friends
each wrote a note of encouragement and words of blessing for myself and
the baby. Pictures were taken of all of the ladies at the table and a
frame was given to me which each friend had signed in which to put the
best of the pictures we had taken. Such thoughtful gifts made me feel
all the more special and loved by these dear sisters of mine.
At gift opening time, I discovered that Chante' took me at my word in
that I was certain the baby would be a girl and she gave to me some
baby girl clothes (which remain unused to this day!) and some silk
leopard jammies. I also got a robe that was so very soft and several
gift cards which I looked forward to using on a lovely shopping spree
once I knew what gender the baby would be.
What I remember most about that night was not the baby shower gifts,
though. It was the love and attention and honor shown to me by my
friends and the time together celebrating our baby's imminent birth and
welcoming him into the world. That is a night that I will treasure
forever...
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